Nowadays, people would prioritize beauty rather than the character. A lot of people would rather go to the dermatologist to fix their nose than to spend time helping at the orphanage. People would bully others because of their appearance. Well, what really is more important?
Treating People based on their beauty
The treatment of people to other people depends on the other’s appearance. If you are beautiful, people will treat you like a princess. If you have a non-pleasing personality, then people would just treat you like slave. People would tease someone ugly like being ugly is a big sin. No matter how kind you are, if you are ugly, you will be mistreated.
Having a Character than having a beauty
Your beauty is just an outside appearance, but your character comprises your heart and soul. Compare two women who have extremely different beauty. If you are just beautiful but don’t have a heart, you will not have real friends. But even if you are not beautiful but are so kind, you will have more friends.
It is because people would value the character more rather than beauty. People may value beauty but in terms of having a companion you would surely abide those who are kind even if they’re not beautiful than those who has beauty but don’t have a good character.
In Choosing a wife, Beauty or Character?
According to many, beauty is more important because it is permanent, the character can be changed. But if you are a real man, you should think twice. Beauty is important, but character is more important. It is the character that can tell if the woman can overcome the very hard challenges in life. Remember, married life is a lifetime commitment. But if your wife prioritizes more her beauty than the household chores, do you think you will be a happy husband? A woman of character is a blessing to her husband because she will prioritize the family rather than her beauty.
How does your character affect your beauty?
As a human being, we give importance to what our eyes can see. We are just so blind to not see what eyes can’t see like character. If you are a kind person, everybody would look at you beautifully. It is because people will remember how kind you are and how you made them feel and not your physical features. So even if you are not beautiful but if you have an outstanding character, people will love you unconditionally.
Your beauty is important as well as your character. But it is your attitude that would help you to become successful and not your beauty. If you are just beautiful but have a dog-like manner, people will leave you. You may be ahead of anything if you are a beautiful person, but it is your character that makes you stay with other people. It is because it is your character that defines you as a person.